Who Am I Dating.
WAID | Who Am I DatingKnow who you're dating before you fall

Get curious before you get serious

WAID is a members only community where people share structured feedback about people they’ve dated. Rate two people, earn your first credits, and look someone up before your heart does.

No card to start Earn credits by rating Your ratings stay anonymous
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Overall score 4.3
Honesty
Communication
Reliability

From 12 members

14 questions

standardized answers, nothing else

1 rating = 1 credit

share honestly, search freely

0 comments

no rumors, no drama

How WAID works

Give honesty, get honesty

WAID runs on reciprocity. The community only knows what members are willing to share, so your first searches are unlocked by your own two ratings.

01

Create your private profile

Sign up in under two minutes. Your identity is never shown next to any rating you leave.

02

Rate two people you've dated

Answer a few simple questions about your experience dating them. No comments or written reviews. Each completed rating earns you 1 search credit

03

Search someone before you commit

Search by first name, last name, approximate age, country and city. One credit reveals their WAID Score, dating insights, and how many members contributed.

04

Decide with clarity

Use what you learn as one additional perspective alongside your own judgment, then keep earning credits or go unlimited.

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More than just a score

Behavior Score

Standardized questions measure dating behaviors such as honesty, respect, boundaries, communication, accountability, reliability, privacy, empathy and mutual effort.

Dating Insights

Additional questions provide context about things like relationship intentions and lifestyle. These insights do not affect the WAID Score.

The same standardized questions are used for everyone, making results easier to understand and compare

Built with care

Safe by design, kind by default

We deliberately removed everything that turns honesty into harassment.

No written reviews

Only standardized answers. No stories, accusations or open-ended comments.

Aggregated scores only

You see averages and how many members contributed, never who said what.

One rating per person

Verified member accounts, one rating per member per profile, plus admin moderation.

Minimal data

First name, last name, approximate age and city. No photos, no contact details.

Members only

Results are never public and never indexed. Nothing to find on Google.

For your safety, not revenge

Rate only people you've actually dated. Abuse gets accounts removed.

Simple pricing

Start free. Pay only if you want more.

Earn as you go

Free

1 credit for every person you rate.

  • Rate 2 people to unlock searching
  • 1 credit = 1 full search
  • Credits never expire
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WAID Premium

$9.99/month

Unlimited searches. Cancel anytime.

  • Unlimited searches
  • No credits to manage
  • Full search history
  • Cancel in one click

Credit pack

$2.99one-time

5 search credits, no subscription.

  • 5 credits instantly
  • Perfect for occasional checks
  • No recurring charge
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Date with your eyes open.

Two ratings from you, and the community opens up. It takes five minutes, and it might save you five months